This post may not be for everyone.... but it's important to me.
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This amazing photo was taken by my friend Conni of Constance Pohl Photography... Henry's first meal. She was there to capture His arrival. One day I will post a few more of these photos. |
Earlier this week I realized that I have been successfully exclusively breastfeeding Henry since the day he was born. I mean, he has had a few bottles in difficult breastfeeding situations.... but for the most part, my body has nourished his from the beginning. On average 88% of women initiate breastfeeding in Canada....of those women almost 22% will quit before the end of the first month and 54% continue to 6 months. I know that this may not seem like a big deal but I struggled to get to this point with Sydney.
Sydney had a slight tongue tie and she was huge. The demand she placed on my body was just too much and I was never able to give her what she needed. I was devastated when she gave up breastfeeding at 5 and a half months after lactation consultant visits and vitamins that just didn't help. I felt like I had lost bonding time with her. I felt like I had failed.
I know now that there is nothing that I could have done. It was the perfect storm of factors that led to our breastfeeding fail and it is the perfect alignment of factors that make Henry and I so successful. There is something special about that time together. It is something that only a mother and child can experience and I love every second of it. I fully plan on breastfeeding Henry until he tells me he is done and I am proud of myself for doing it.
Mrs. E
Be super proud! And definitely don't feel like you and Sydney failed. Danny dropped me like a hot potato at 9 months, he totally quit on his own when he was ready (even if I wasn't). Enjoy every second while it lasts!
ReplyDeleteThanks Renee! 9 months is awesome! I have heard that 9-12 months is the hardest. I hope that your next baby does that well!
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